I’m so grateful that Gods love isn’t motivated by your acceptance of the way that I love him back 
We are afraid of what we do not understand. With that being said we attempt to place all things in boxes of comprehension. When one or more of those things don’t fit we then tend to label it accurately or we fear it and disagree with it and call it too much of one thing or not enough of another. We make it taboo instead of just saying we don’t understand it and asking for clarity. Can we get clarity?